Where for art Thou, Cool Moms?

Where are they all hiding? I'm starting to feel like an endangered species here. Is it so much to ask for a witty comrade with a sense of humor *gasp* or maybe someone a wee bit progressive in their thinking? I know having kids changes people but seriously, you don't have to turn into boring tightasses. What's even worse is when you find someone kind of cool and their husband isn't. That means you can't do family things or couple things because your husband has absolutely nothing in common with Joe Dork or Joe Rabidsportsfan or Joe Unfunny and groans every time you try to set something up. Of course, if your husband's friends would grow up already and take the leap...*sigh*
More later.

Addendum: In regard to one of the comments... Uh no, I'm not the kind of cool mom who sleeps with my son's friends. (pssst...he's a baby) As for hot moms, well, I was kind of lamenting over the shortage of cool moms. But thanks for your comment. I always enjoy company.